Why I love the NFBC
Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2015 7:22 pm
My entire life I have known more about baseball than anyone I would meet. That changed here. I welcome as do most of us who face the exact same situation. I would rather be respected here for my baseball acumen than revered elsewhere for it.
I love the friendships. I love the interesting people. I love how Beverly HIlls meets a pig farmer in Idaho. Baseball brought us together, but who we are as human beings unites us.
We are not perfect, but we are a family. I have written things on this board that I regret yet I still have a lot of friends here. Gekko, MTM, Kevin, Dobies, the list could go on for days. We are not perfect. We make mistakes. Friends forgive and see the best in others.
I would propose the gold standard for behavior being acceptable versus unacceptable is one in the end Greg must make. I politely suggest the bar being set at one simple question. What motivates your behavior? If you wish to hurt others and your primary goal is to start trouble then you are not welcome. If your goal is to enjoy baseball and be welcomed by a big ole dysfunctional family that ranges from multi multi millionaires to regular joes, skinny to fat, blue collar to white collar then come on in. You don't have to be perfect you just have to love baseball and have a desire to make it a better place. I know my main goal here has never been to hurt. I lost my way once or twice. The interesting thing is I have also never thought my "opponent" in that debate's goal was to harm me or hurt me either. The last couple of days is the only time I have seen that behavior. It makes me sad and mad. I don't like to see my friends belittled. I also don't want to see anyone pushed away too soon. No one is as good as their best day or as bad as their worst. I look forward to a few Vegas buffets, a couple of beers, a pair of jeans with no belt, talking baseball for hours with Neal and Andy and most of all a hug from Dan Kenyon who I admire more than words can say. Sorry to be long winded.
I love the friendships. I love the interesting people. I love how Beverly HIlls meets a pig farmer in Idaho. Baseball brought us together, but who we are as human beings unites us.
We are not perfect, but we are a family. I have written things on this board that I regret yet I still have a lot of friends here. Gekko, MTM, Kevin, Dobies, the list could go on for days. We are not perfect. We make mistakes. Friends forgive and see the best in others.
I would propose the gold standard for behavior being acceptable versus unacceptable is one in the end Greg must make. I politely suggest the bar being set at one simple question. What motivates your behavior? If you wish to hurt others and your primary goal is to start trouble then you are not welcome. If your goal is to enjoy baseball and be welcomed by a big ole dysfunctional family that ranges from multi multi millionaires to regular joes, skinny to fat, blue collar to white collar then come on in. You don't have to be perfect you just have to love baseball and have a desire to make it a better place. I know my main goal here has never been to hurt. I lost my way once or twice. The interesting thing is I have also never thought my "opponent" in that debate's goal was to harm me or hurt me either. The last couple of days is the only time I have seen that behavior. It makes me sad and mad. I don't like to see my friends belittled. I also don't want to see anyone pushed away too soon. No one is as good as their best day or as bad as their worst. I look forward to a few Vegas buffets, a couple of beers, a pair of jeans with no belt, talking baseball for hours with Neal and Andy and most of all a hug from Dan Kenyon who I admire more than words can say. Sorry to be long winded.